“Infidelity carries a scent.
It lingers around a person. It
colors your behavior in such a way that your partner can’t help but notice
something’s changed”
I read this quote
from Pinterest. It’s true - when a
spouse is cheating, there will be changes in their behavior.
A few months ago, I
hired a private
investigator to get proof of my husband’s infidelity. How did I know he was cheating? After being married for ten years, I knew he
was up to something when his habits started to change.
At first, I
shrugged these off casually but looking back, these were valid signs of
infidelity.
7 signs of infidelity
- Late nights
My husband’s career is a regular 9-to-5 job. But suddenly he had excuses like having to
work overtime, going on extended meetings with the boss and being invited to drinking
sessions with friends.
- Missed calls
Although he warned me never to call, each time I tried, he does not pick
up or takes a long time to answer. When
he does answer, he is whispering or in a hurry to end the conversation. When
his phone rings at home, he ignores the call on purpose then leaves the room to
return the call.
- Sudden interest in his looks
Surprisingly, he changed his entire wardrobe to look younger and started
regular visits to the salon to dye his hair.
His sudden use of perfumes before leaving the house should have made me
suspicious already.
- Frequently mentioning a name
They say that when a person is in love, they unconsciously mention their
lover’s name in conversations. This
means that they are constantly thinking of their lover and are excited to share
their traits and activities.
In my husband’s case, he was always mentioning this new girl in the
office - her sexy youthfulness and flirty eyes.
This made me very uncomfortable.
After having five kids, my body is not as attractive as before and
financial concerns have erased any sexy thoughts from my mind.
- Hiding messages
He would secretly read his emails and text messages when he thinks I am
not around. Then he immediately deletes
the messages when I catch him.
- Sudden showers
After arriving home, he would immediately jump into the shower. They say that this is a sign that he wants to
shed off the scent of his lover.
- Protective about his phone
He suddenly brings his phone even in the bathroom. And he also makes sure that his phone is not
left around for anyone to see. His usual
excuse is that he is waiting for a call from his boss.
- What is your next step?
Instead of being paranoid from your
suspicions, get your facts instead.
There are private investigation
firms that will help investigate the activities of your husband, without
his knowledge.
Try Integrity Investigation Service. They use discreet and professional methods to
show proof like video recordings and pictures.
Having my facts made me more confident to confront my
husband and initiate divorce proceedings.
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